Saturday 13 September 2014

Good stuff: Links & likes

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This piece by Jenny Trout about wearing a bikini is just wonderful; I defy you not to laugh out loud. Just a taster:
"The most common concern was my health. Presumably I, as a fat woman, would not know how to properly operate the complicated piece of equipment known as a bikini. What if I strangled in all the straps and ties? What if I became distracted by the complexity of spandex, a substance heretofore unknown to me, and wandered blindly into traffic? What if I ate it?"

Last Saturday's Guardian had a great article about Laura Dodsworth's project to photograph and interview 100 women about their breasts. The stories are incredibly moving and the photographs are powerful (although, predictably but sadly, the below-the-line commenters did not get it at all). There's also a Kickstarter for the production of a book, if you're interested in supporting her work.

Sarah is reliably brilliant but I especially loved her post on living a blogable life. As always, she beautifully articulated many of my own thoughts: in this case, some of the issues with a money-drive, haul-obsessed blogging world.

Considering I have no immediate plans to get wed, I'm far too obsessed with Rock'n'Roll Bride, and this compilation of 44 budget weddings was brilliant, showing how much you can do even on a tiny budget.

While on the subject of weddings, Amy's thoughts on changing her last name really struck a chord with me. I'm quite militant about this: let's just say you would never find me taking a partner's name.

If anyone wants an early Christmas present idea for me, one of these would do nicely, ta.

Have you come across The Every Body Project yet? So much more interesting and inspiring than ordinary street style blogs; I quite often pin a photo and then go on a charity shopping mission to recreate the look.

8 comments:

  1. Thanks for the mention! Off to check out your other links now. :)

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  2. I always said I would never change my surname unless my other half's surname was shorter than mine!! ( Having a long surname can be annoying...). I love the fact that in this day and age we actually have the choice.

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    1. I have a v.boring and common surname. I suppose at least I never have to spell it for anyone!

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  3. Amy's post about last names is ace and v.relevant as my husband decided he wants to take my name :) It's lovely and I'm pretty chuffed I get to keep my name but SO many people just assumed I'd take his.

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    1. That's awesome! I wish there were more cool dudes like that around, for a lot of men I know it's practically an affront to their masculinity just to suggest their wife keeps her own name, let alone they change theirs!

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  4. What a lovely collection of links. When I married Rob I had a lot of friends who were surprised I took his name. But to me, its just another thing we share. I had horrible associations with my name of being bullied at school, a tough teen experience and lots more. So to take another name, and reinvent myself was nice. I don't feel taking someone else's name has diminished me as a feminist, I feel proud to share a name with the man I love.

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    1. I have a very clear memory of you writing an ace blog post about this very issue, and I searched all your archives so I could add the link here to give another perspective but I couldn't find it. Am I making it all up?!

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